A Spicy Valentines Day

Nix the wilted flowers and the lonely box of chocolate candy because they are what is expected of the uncreative sweet heart. You can do better than that! Show your sweet heart how special he/she is to you. You'll come across to your love as a romantic and thoughtful person.

This idea will upgrade your rating to the top notch lover in your town. Here is an eye opener of an idea! Send your special love on a lover's hunt around the house.

Write a love message that expresses your affection on three or four attractive note cards. You'd say something similar to,

"The day I met you, my heart melted at the power you had over me. Look in the ___ room to see how I managed to pull myself together ."

You then place the next note card in an easy to find location such as the a lamp table or a sofa seat.

Your next note would say...

"I held my breath and hoped you would not see my heart pounding so very hard in my chest. I was sure I'd have a heart attack. I didn't want to take my eyes off of you. Find my heart in the ____room"

That room could be the bedroom. Your love will find a big red heart shaped box of candy lying on the bed. Red rose petals will be sprinkled over and around the chocolate heart candy box.

There could be one more note on top of the chocolate candy. It could say,

"I'm running in circles waiting to see you. Meet me at the front door in the sexy outfit I left for you in the closet. I want you to receive my heart filled Valentines Day gift planned just for you."

You'd meet your love at the front door and take him/her to a romantic restaurant or place of seductive enjoyment. Throughout the evening your love will be romantically mystified over the side of you they never knew about.

You will score a home run with your love. And don't be surprised the following week when his/her friends and family look at you differently. That means your love was pleasantly surprised to learn you have what it takes to win their heart.

Valentines Day is not the only day you may express your love for your mate. To keep things at a pleasant surprise level occasionally add a little extra to your encounters with your loved one. The element of surprise adds a degree of mystery to your relationship. You will keep the spark glowing. Your mate will return your thoughtfulness in ways you never imagined.

WORD OF CAUTION:

Your mate may not do the same exciting things you do to declare your love. Your mate may use other actions that are reciprocal to your efforts an unique to his/her personality. The key is to acknowledge their efforts and to enjoy the special attention.

Your uniqueness makes Valentines Day special. Add to that a little romance and thoughtfulness. You have the makings of a Valentines Day you and your love will never forget. It does not matter how much money you spend,the important thing is setting the atmosphere that says, "I love you and I care about your happiness." A few ideas you could customize to reflect your love includes...

• A romantic dinner prepared by you just for the two of you
• Pick your love up from work in a limo. Make arrangements with a trusted friend to drive his/her car home.
• Give your loved one a body massage.Follow it with a long relaxing spa for the two of you. Have a bottle of champagne chilling on the side with tasty finger foods. And have a long fluffy terry cloth robe waiting to wrap your love in sheer comfort. Don't forget the soft romantic music in the background the two of you enjoy.
  
• As your love enters your dark home, make sure red valentine lights line the way to a candle lit table with a beautifully prepared dinner waiting for the two of you.
• Your patio or balcony is ideal for decorating with red rose petals all over the place. On the side table have a bottle of your favorite bubbly or a warm drink. On the long chase have a warm cozy blanket the two you may snuggle up under as you watch the valentine moon float across the sky.
  

Now you have a running start for showing your special love how important they are to you. Now do it!